Move to a new city: how much it weighs on you
A move can mean a new job, new people and a new start, which is why it's easy to keep putting off. This weighs how much it matters to you.
Your numbers
Common answers are filled in. Change the ones you know.
How much it weighs
Weighs 7 out of 10
It weighs 7 out of 10, and it's on your mind every week
Over a lifetime, people regret what they didn't do far more than what they did. Unfinished plans keep coming back to mind. Writing down when you'll take the first step helps quiet them.
Your small stepWrite down the 3 things that would need to be true to move, and check one this week.
How we worked this out
- How much it matters: 7 out of 10.
- How much you'd regret it at 80: 7 out of 10.
- Weight: (7 + 7) ÷ 2 = 7 out of 10.
- On your mind: every week.
- How scary starting feels: 5 out of 10. It changes the words we use, not the weight.
- Waiting for 1 year.
- There are no rupees here on purpose. Some things are better weighed than counted.
Sources
- Pink, The Power of Regret (2022): Across tens of thousands of submitted regrets, four kinds keep coming up: foundation (not building basics like savings or health), boldness (not taking the chance), moral, and connection (letting relationships drift).
- Gilovich & Medvec, Psychological Review (1995): In the short run people regret what they did; over the long run they regret what they didn't do.
- World Happiness Report 2025 (Gallup World Poll) (2025): Researchers measure how people feel about their lives with a simple 0 to 10 rating. India scored about 4.4 in 2025.
- Masicampo & Baumeister (2011): Unfinished goals keep popping into your head. Making a specific plan for them quiets those thoughts.
How it works
We ask how much it matters and how much you'd regret never trying, and weigh it out of 10.
If starting feels scary, research on the impact bias finds we usually expect bad feelings to be stronger and last longer than they really are.
The step turns a big decision into three small checks.
Sources
- Pink, The Power of Regret (2022): The survey is self-selected (people chose to submit), so it shows patterns, not rates.
- Gilovich & Medvec, Psychological Review (1995): Debated by Kahneman (1995); a 1998 follow-up found some regrets of inaction are wistful rather than painful.
- World Happiness Report 2025 (Gallup World Poll) (2025): A national average, and a different question from ours. We borrow the method, not the number.
- Masicampo & Baumeister (2011)
Questions people ask
Is this telling me to move?
No. It helps you see how much it matters to you. The choice is yours.
What kind of things should I check?
Whatever matters to you, like work, rent, or being near family. Write them down, then check one this week.
Putting off more than one thing?
Pick up to five and get your Delay Statement: what to do first, what can wait, and one small step for today.
Want a nudge to act on it?
The app turns what you're putting off into a short list for each day: your Top 3 and one small step at a time. It's free.
We show what waiting costs on your own plans. We never tell you what to buy or invest in. Rules and averages change, so check the official pages before you plan anything.